While I was studying Genesis 2 earlier today, the Holy Spirit taught me something which I will love to share with you.
Genesis 2:18
[18]And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

Beloved,
I don’t know who needs to hear this… But I tell you, God is interested in your relationship status. God is interested in the fact that you are ALONE.
His plans for us are of good and not of evil. So in all things see the good side of it. In the breakup you just had recently see the good side of it, and how it drew you closer to God.

In Genesis 1:25.. We see how God created the beast, the cattle, and every thing that creeps upon the earth after it’s kind: and saw that it was good.
But man’s being alone gave God concern.

Beloved, Hear this.. The fact that alot of people have broken your heart doesn’t mean that God doesn’t see or care about you, He does. Remember the signs he showed you that you failed to recognise on time.. God wants the best for you.
You wanna know why am so convinced… Follow me, let me show you something….

Genesis 2:19-20
[19]And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
[20]And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

Beloved, God set beast, the fowl, to see what Adam will identify them as.. But as Adam watched them, he called them what they are. He didn’t call the beast his love, because he knew it was a beast. Nor the fowl as his bone of his bone, because he knew that this wasn’t for him. Amongst them he look, called them by their name and did not find someone to call his help or future into them.

For you it may be.. The drug addict, the womanizer, the playboy/girl.
You fell for the colourful approach but failed to look deep to find how well can this person be a HELP MEET for me.
LEARN TO CALL PEOPLE AS THEY ARE. AND STOP LOOKING FOR ESTHER IN DELILAH.

But I tell you, when you have learned to identify the BEAST from the HELP MEET. Then shall God send you the special one for you.
When you dwell on His Word. When you allow him make the choice for you. He sure gives you the best.
How will I know when he sends the best? Someone may want to ask.
When you see that person whom it seems as if you we’re made for each other.
The one whom understands you as if its himself. Because out of his bones you we’re made.

The one whom you need not to struggle to love.
Because as Adam sighted her.. He needed not to be told, this is for him. Because the GOD CONNECTION happened. And he said
Genesis 2:23
[23]And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.