Define the relationship, I say define that relationship….
Oya get your popcorn, sit down jejely and listen to my story.
One day, one brother called me and was like he wants to talk to me.
Me been the nice girl that I am, went to hear what the brother had to say. The next thing, brother started stammering and smiling.
Me on this end is casting out any spirit that is thinking anything order than the stammering and smiling out of my mind.

The next thing brother told me that he was called upon by the church council, in order to give him a post /office (responsibility) in the church.
“Wow! I am so happy for you”, I exclaimed
The next thing brother told me was. He was asked whether he was single or not..
And this was his reply “I am single now but there is someone I have my eyes on, that is so dear to me.”

Moderator: “Sir do you see yourself having a future with her?”
Brother: “Yes sir! I believe in a year or two we will make things official at the altar.”
(Me smiling at brother..)
Me: “Brother I am soo happy for you that you have found true love. Congratulations”

Brother: “it is the Lord’s doing and it is marvelous in our sight. Do you know I have even introduced her to my spiritual father.”
Me: “Wow! brother you really seem so serious concerning her o. Why then haven’t I met her?”
Brother: (smiling from ear to ear) “How can you meet her, when you are the one.”
(I don’t understand, somebody should tap me.. It’s like am dreaming.)

Me: “Brother, how can I be her when I already have someone whom I want to spend the rest of my life with.”
Brother: (His big smile is replaced with a frown instantly) “Why didn’t you tell me since.? I have already told my family, my church people, my friend about you… Why sister? Why?”
Me: (looking soo confused) “Sir when did you ask me out.. ? Have we held a conversation about love and relationship before?”

There is a difference between friendship and relationship.
Unku not every fire-branded sister is your wife.
That sister that is always nice to you, is not trying to tell you she is interested.
Because she’s fine and can pray you’ve already started planning future with her without consulting her…..

Biko don’t be like that guy that has finished getting married to that sister in his dreams, without even telling her physically..
Don’t be like that lady that has already told her people about that fine brother, up to the extent of posting his pictures on her status, when she and the guy has never communicated sef…

Ahh oh wrong na..
Let’s receive sense small koh..
If it’s not a relationship, it’s not a relationship. Call it what it is, DON’T ASSUME!