It is an error of a Gargantuan proportion for you to think you don’t need to pray very well and be sure of God’s leading before you enter into marriage.
That a lady’s face is beautiful does not mean her soul is beautiful.
That a lady is physically endowed does not mean she is spiritually endowed for ministry.

That a lady is well packaged does not mean she is packaged for ministry.
Those curves you are admiring on her body today may curve your ministry tomorrow after marriage. That bosom of hers may bring you to the bottom after marriage while that chest can chase away your relevance.

The wife you marry can determine the longevity of your ministry.
Many ministries have suffered premature death because of the mistake of the setman in the choice of a marriage partner.
Pray! I repeat, Pray and let God lead you. It is dangerous to choose by sight or feelings.
There is nothing wrong with marrying a physically attractive or beautiful woman; you can see I married one myself but you must make sure God is involved in the choosing.

I believe in you sirs and I know you will all do greater than us. But please don’t miss it maritally.

Even the anointed of the Lord can be down emotionally too.
Emotion is one terrible thing that knows no big or small. Anointed or leader. Senior or junior. That thing can make everyone act like Nepa lights that can be inconsistent .
But am here to submit to you that you can be emotionally stable as from today. If you will make up your mind to set your priority straight.
Know what you want — try your possible best to get them and if it not coming in turn — learn to carry your remaining self honorably and move one.

Who doesn’t want you anymore can be the most difficult person to work or walk with. Or still waiting to have back. It can be so devastating and exhausting. God gives you the grace to make up your mind to move on.
Your best days where never design by God to be in your past days – but always in the days and things ahead. Cheat not your inner peace for your emotion. Emotion is senseless. But going for the truth and the reality you’ve know about a person is far better.

Your emotion can lie to you — but inner peace and joy that you’ve can’t. A song says; After all I’ve been through I still have joy. Don’t be surprise, in the midst of that challenge you can still have joy
Meaning, God is up to something for you. Don’t kill yourselves for no one. Just rest in him. Keep chasing after loving Him. He will bring the covenant one, who will love you as you’re ought to be loved.

Don’t compromise your standards because you’re already emotionally connected to the person. Even the anointed can be down emotionally which can affect your spiritual fervency.
You want to do what you shouldn’t do. Since it seems there’s rejection bah, herein, here out and you felt the need for acceptance please, don’t compromise, who will love you right and treat you nice is just by the corner.

Wait for that God sent…
I believe there’s a level of faithfulness that God himself will see and do the match make — know matter the distance all by himself.
Some of this persons you’re emotionally connected and crying for where only kept around you to get you busy and preserve you from wolfs for the right person to find you later on .

Receive grace to discern if they’re help meet or help keep till the real person show up!
Learn to discern this!
This is a revelation for someone’s deliverance.
I love you and Jesus loves you too

Rev. Akinola Tunde