How many men’s/women’s souls do you have inside of you? Every person you sleep with leaves a part of themselves with you. some of us think sex is for fun but you don’t know that sex out of marriage is the greatest covenant that you can ever think of, Sexually transmitted demons are not something to play with and are harder to get rid of than diseases!!!!

Soul ties are more powerful than you think. The right mate for you will PRAY on your soul not PREY on it. Women, God made you to be protected by your husband’s and sex makes you feel married, even though you aren’t. Sex is a spiritual bond because of the connection made during love making.

Do you ever wonder what your soul looks like to GOD? Sex does more to the body than the eyes can see. Be careful who and what you allow your soul to tie to!!!

But if you are ready to change,You could say………

I made a terrible mistake
How could I have gotten myself into something as dirty as this?
I feel so dirty. It’s so bad that I feel like people know what I have done just by looking at me. Guilt won’t even let me be. I’m irritated just by the thought of what happened.
A very terrible mistake that cost me a lot. I’m so drained! After it happened I just feel so empty.
I was struggling to maintain the oil of God on my life, now this happened and I’m completely empty.
Can I ever come out of this?
Can God ever forgive me?

You made a mistake? Fine.
God has forgiven you, but the question is, have you forgiven yourself?
You kneel to worship God in church and satan brings back a fresh picture of what happened and you’d begin to cry and ask God for mercy again…and all of a sudden you become depressed in the presence of God instead of being filled with the joy that comes from fellowshipping with the brethren.

When that happens, he is happy because he has gotten you.
PS: can you now see why it is better not to fall at all?
Satan never forgets! He will always come to accuse you especially when he sees that you’re beginning to take giant strides toward God.
But guess what? When he reminds you of your past, remind him of his future! Remind him of the judgment and eternal damnation that awaits him! Remind him that Jesus has already won the victory and set you free! Remind him that you have overcome him by the blood of the lamb and by the word of your testimony!

He wants you to stay in that pit and continue in that sin because he knows that the hand of God is upon you and he sees the glory that is to come.
He knows that if you don’t forgive yourself and move on, you will keep doing it because you will feel that you can no longer help it.
But, my dear, you can help it. Yes, you can! God’s power is ever available to help you, but your will also has a powerful role to play. God cannot come down from heaven and stop you from going to your sin partner’s house. He will only give you instructions and leave you to make a decision.
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There are pitfalls(traps) awaiting us on our path to fulfilling destiny. The Devil has seen the glorious future ahead of you but he wants to thwart it and you can give him that chance by being careless with your life. One of the easiest ways to do that is by being careless with your body and getting entrapped in the web of sexual immorality.

No one falls into sexual immorality just like that, there are processes.
Rather than looking for ways to come out of it, better prevent it from happening.
No one ever intends to fall into a pit. In fact, most times they are even covered so you won’t even know that they are there until you fall in.
Some persons use their hands to dig a pit by carelessly living their lives. Some innocently fall into it while some are lured into it.

Whichever one is the case, if you must go far in life you must do all within your power to avoid them. Prevention, they say, is better than cure.
You know that emotions are not “born again” and you carelessly decide to stay in that tempting environment when you could easily flee.
You know that what you are about to do is wrong, but you’re unconsciously removing your clothes for it to happen anyways! Why? Because the emotions are high.
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This is a season of “love”. A season where you may be tempted to forget about all the investment of God upon your life and just mess up.
A season where compromise will be normal. Never forget that every compromise is pregnant for another.
But I tell you, wait! It will be worth it.
In this season, be discerning! Know when to stay indoors and when to go out! Know when to pull the curtain! Set boundaries and be firm! Your destiny is too great to be altered on the bed of compromise!
In this season, control who/what you give your heart to!
In this season, not all gatherings are for you!
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Dear Believer, I understand that the struggle to stay sexually pure especially in a time like this is real. I understand that sometimes you feel that God hates you by giving such a rule.
But you must understand that God loves you and he knows the consequence of premarital sex and he doesn’t want you to go through such an experience.

Sex is beautiful but only within the confines of marriage, anything outside that is disgusting and dirty. Sex outside marriage is not love-making but fornication.
Your body is the temple of God! Never forget that, no matter what you do.
That one night of compromise can cost you your destiny! It can cost you your relationship with the Holy Spirit! It can cost you all your fire! So, I ask, is it worth it?

Valentine will still come next year, and guess what? It will remind you of how you cast your pearls before pigs. Please, Zip up! Close your legs!!! IT IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!
Many backslide because they still can’t forgive themselves for letting it happen, and they feel that God won’t forgive them too. So you see the extent this can get to, right?
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And please, if you have fallen into this at one time or the other. No one is condemning you, or even if they are, I am not. Get up! Stop crying! Stop beating yourself! Accept God’s mercy and the Grace to go and sin no more.
And also, remember that sin thrives in secrecy, so you need to open up to a trusted authority that can help you out. You can’t come out of a pit by yourself, someone has to help you out of it. Accountability is very vital.
Jesus loves you! Believe me, he still does. Don’t allow guilt to Rob you of a new relationship with him.

You are chosen and not forsaken. You may have gone too far but you can still be helped. Why give up on yourself when the King of Kings has not given up on you?
I’m not disputing the fact that you may get tempted, but, I tell you feed your spirit and you will not satisfy the desires of the flesh. It is easier to fall into sin and temptation when your spirit man is weak. This is a proven way to leave above sin in a time like this.
Selah!

Need help? You can reach out to me.
God bless you.

© Precious Nmesoma Okoh.