SISTER, CAN YOU STOP JOKING ?

You have been turning down the proposals of brothers coming your way simply because none of them are ministry material’ to you…
You said you entered a covenant with God years ago that you will serve in His vineyard therefore your husband must be a pastor…
You even claim that several prophets have prophesied to you that you will marry a pastor…

Since you heard those prophecies, you have been positioning yourself to meet that man of God that will make you ‘mummy-in-the Lord’ in future…
I have no problem with that at all…
It is good to know that you will soon become ‘mummy-in-the Lord’…
But I am seriously concerned about your preparation…
Ministry is not an amusement park, ministry is a battle ground!
If all that motivates you in your desire to become a Pastor’s wife is the honour, glamour and razzmatazz that goes with, then you are seriously joking ma….

If all you think about are the daughters that will be running errands for you as their mummy and the honor of sitting on the altar beside your husband like a queen sitting beside the king on the throne, then you need to wake up ma!
Forget those glamours; ministry is a warzone!
It will be an error to be a ‘mummy’
without FIRE!
It will be an error to be called ‘mummy’ when your spiritual altar is cold!
You desire to become a Pastor’s wife but you don’t have a prayer life, isn’t that funny?

Women like you are the type that will become a burden to their husband’s ministry in future…
Becoming a help mate to a man implies that you first become his intercessor…
Let me ask you this question ma:
What is the strength of your secret life?
How do you hope to be effective and helpful to your husband’s ministry if you are spiritually cold and dry?
You aren’t occupied with the stress of motherhood yet, neither are you burdened with the responsibility of managing a home; still you can’t maximize your time to seek the face of God…

If you eventually get married, start having kids and get preoccupied with the responsibility of managing a home, how do you hope to catch-up with God?
Dear sister,
It is not enough to desire to marry a pastor, match that desire with solid preparation…
I mean, spiritual preparation…
You need to prepare so that you won’t end up becoming a ‘mummy’ that will be used as an experiment in the coven…
Build your prayer life, intensify your study life, train yourself to hear the voice of God because you will need these qualities in future!

When you see all these mummies, don’t just admire their dress style, desire their spiritual capacity…
These women are relevant in their husband’s ministry today because they built capacity – spiritual capacity!
My dear, refuse to be carnal so that you won’t frustrate your future husband’s ministry..
Don’t forget, a ‘mummy’ that cannot pray can be used as an experiment in the coven!
LET DEBORAHS ARISE!!!