Many times we’ve blamed people for not wanting to accept the will of God for them and which is very true; but on the other hand, what is it about you that can make someone struggle to accept you?
Why many of us are still single is simply because God is waiting for you to work on yourself and get better.
With the way and the level at which some of us are, it will really look unfair for God to give us the kind of partner we truly desire; you do not worth what you’re asking for.
The truth is, some of these things are products of our personal negligence and complacency. Why should you not have learnt how to dress well and look good?
It’s not that some people are not beautiful or handsome, it is just that we don’t take good care of ourselves.
“I don’t care, it’s my body”, and you want a partner that is spirit filled with every sense of good look.
You must be joking.
Why should you allow your partner to meet an uncultured personality in you?
You eat and your mouth makes too much noise.
People have corrected you but you’ll always give excuse that you can’t help it; and you complain that your partner does not find you attractive. Really? Do you find yourself attractive?
Some sisters have not learnt how to talk and address a man. Every man always look like their room mate in school. You shout at him and dominate every time, why should he not have a hard time accepting you?
You talk to his mother as if you’re talking to a maid and blame it on your upbringing.
Anty, you have the responsibility of submitting yourself to training elsewhere if you realize you were not exposed to some crucial trainings while growing up.
I know that some of us are trying to make way in life but there are others who have every privilege to have studied more and get better but they’ve just refused to go to school.
Why should a lady with master’s degree not have a problem accepting a secondary school certificate man? If it was you sef, won’t you feel somehow?
The lady is not proud, it’s just not easy for her.
You have nothing doing as a man and yet, you still don’t talk like someone who has a vision. Even if you don’t currently have money, talk about your vision. Talk about the better version of you that is coming. Give her a sense of security to a degree.
She’s not a money monger, she’s only trying to be sure she’s safe with you.
“E go better”, “E go better”, Oga, say something better. Talk like someone who has a bright future.
What I’m saying is that, improve on yourself, get better. Do everything within your power to ensure that “weaknesses” are reduced in your life. Try to add value to yourself. Ask yourself, is there anything about me that my partner can really be proud of?
When God decides to settle you, let it not be that, you are the one who postponed it because you’ve not grown.
“Any man or woman that marries me will always have reasons to thank God”, make this your watch word.
Source: The Diary of a Young Christian.