Good day dearly beloved, it’s been an adventure in light in our fellowship on this particular discuss. Part 6 was focused on how to choose a life partner, we will continue a little on that today and we trust God for more revelations in the coming days.

The choice of a life partner is one of the greatest if not the greatest choice a man can make in his life. This choice can determine your destination in life either success or failure.

I pray for someone reading this, you will not make a wrong marital choice in Jesus name and if you have made such choices, the mercy of God will speak over your marriage in Jesus name.
In part 6. I highlighted some factors that should be considered while trusting God for a good marriage.
I will dig deeper into the subject of purpose in this episode.

You must discover your purpose before you go into marriage, marriage is a purpose journey it is a platform to fulfill purpose in a grand style. It is more than a platform for sex and procreation, it is a place to enter into the fullness of what God has called you to be.
The woman is called an helper by God, the same name that God called the Holy Ghost, so it means for you to understand the ideal role of a woman in your life you have to understand the role of the Holy Spirit .

Only a woman that has intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit can fully enter into her purpose because the Holy Spirit is her perfect example in her role as an helper.
That is why the Bible says in “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.”

Proverbs 18:22 NKJV
Getting a good wife is like receiving the Holy Spirit, what you ordered for was a wife, what you got was a wife with several packages such as HELP, SUPPORT, FAVOUR, GOOD, etc
When I was about getting married the Lord said to me, I am about to increase your strength, I was wondering what He meant and He replied with this scripture.

“How could one chase a thousand, And two put ten thousand to flight, Unless their Rock had sold them, And the LORD had surrendered them?”
Deuteronomy 32:30 NKJV
If you marry the gift from God you have just moved from crawling to flying, everything about me went on the increase after marriage.

One of the major purpose of marriage is to help those involved fulfil their purpose on earth.


1. Ask your manufacturer– The manufacturer made you, so He knows why He made you. God is your manufacturer, Ask him
“‘Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know.’”

Jeremiah 33:3 NKJV
I cried to God, father you created me, you sent me here, show me why, I prayed and He answered me.
He will answer you too, remember He promised us that “Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.”
I John 5:14 NKJV
This prayer is according to His will because it is rooted in the word that we should ask Him and He will show us.

2. Check the manual of the manufacturer– It takes studying the manual of the manufacturer for you not to malfunction in your functions. If you buy a new appliance, you will check the manual to see how to use it.

The BIBLE Is the manual of your manufacturer God, Check it, read it, eat it, digest it until you find your destiny, Jesus found His destiny by reading it “And He was handed the book of the prophet Isaiah. And when He had opened the book, He found the place where it was written: “The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives And recovery of sight to the blind, To set at liberty those who are oppressed;”

Luke 4:17-18 NKJV
Read the Bible and you will see your mandate there, i saw mine there, you don’t have to be called to be a pastor to see your purpose in the Bible, it is a destiny manual for every profession, cry to God, father show me.

3. Check what He deposits inside of you– Every appliance has already inbuilt features to suit its purpose, if you buy a new phone, the phone has some inbuilt abilities that some other phones don’t have, some phones have Face ID while some don’t have but they only have thump ID, so this inbuilt features tell gives us a clue to why it was made.

There are gifts, talents, abilities, capacities in you that you didn’t learn, you just have them, God deposited them in you to suit the purpose to which you are created. From Childhood He gave me talking because He called me to be a preacher and I will need the gift of communication.

Well I might miss it and do another kind of talking but He guided me into His exact purpose for my life.
I will explain in the coming episodes on how to channel your talents to your exact purpose.

I will continue in the next episode

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